John Grochowski
Erotic massages are very passionate acts between two people and if they are in a romantic relationship it works even better. Learn how to give your man an erotic penis massage in this guide by following these 5 simple rules. Try to pick up a couple of tips to add a unique and sensual experience to your sex-life.
The art of penis massage should not be about bringing the man to orgasm but to let him relax and be the receiver of pleasure, hopefully achieving a higher level of feelings and way stronger orgasms. This act might strengthen the intimacy between your lover and you or help to build relationship between new partners.
Erotic massage of man´s penis – 5 tips how to make it right
Here are 5 tips for giving him an amazing penis massage:
1. Set the scene first
Go for candlelight instead of bedside lamps. Set the mood with slow relaxing music to make the atmosphere exotic. This makes the first look on the room very excited, intimate, unique and erotic.
Which massage oil to choose? The best one for this kind of massage is transparent natural oil. Other massage oils (especially those hot) might feel very irritating to that sensitive area. If you still prefer to use some oil with additives or scent for back massage, have some towel and lubricant by hand for the main event.
2. Soft, slow and smooth touch only
Close your partner’s eyes and lead him to lie down face-up. Now you spread the oil with your hands over his entire body. Always warm it with your hands before putting it in contact with his skin. As you are rubbing his body, set your intention to do is in the most caring and loving way. Make yourself believe you have never touched this person before so you slowly explore every part of his body with each rhythmic move.
These slow caresses will:
- Slow his heart rate
- Reduce any stress
- Speed up the release of oxytocin (which makes him feels well-being)
- Start building arousal
3. Starting the massage
As foreplay you better start with normal (non-erotic) massage and then smoothly move to your partner´s private part. When it comes to massaging his penis, make sure your hands are oiled enough.
Advice for beginners, think of massaging his penis as if you were doing a slow motion hand job. Do everything you might do in a hand job but divide the techniques and go way slower.
Examples of possible techniques:
- Fondle his balls or rub perineum while you gently stroke his shaft.
- Try to concentrate on the head of his penis. Use one of your hands like a juicer while you gently stroke his shaft with the other hand.
- Put your hands above head of his penis and very firmly move them down, mimicking the opening vagina. You will see his toes curl!
Being masseur does not means you cannot enjoy it too! While massaging your partner with one hand, the other one you can use to masturbate yourself. Check out these questions about masturbation if you want find out more about it.
4. Men does not have to be hard to be aroused
You might find out that through the act of massage your partner will vary from hard to soft and everywhere in between. You have to know that this is completely normal. It has nothing to do with his enjoyment!
If he gets soft, simply keep on doing what you do (he gets hard in minute once more) or massage some other body part for a while and then come back to his crotch. If you give him a time he will get hard once more.
5. Be prepared for his full-body orgasm experience
Some men report that they have a full-body orgasm, which makes feelings go through other body part too (not only penis). To increase the intensity of his upcoming orgasm, make him wait for it a way longer than he would need. Bring him close to the edge of orgasm and then just stop the whole stimulation. Rub his other body parts for a while until he gets out of the edge. And then tease him and bring him to the edge once more and then over and over again. Later when he gets to orgasm it will be way stronger then usually.
Simply said:
- Bring him close to the orgasm
- Do not let him reach it
- Wait for a while
- And repeat
Bonus tip: You can also add some sex toys to enhance the massage even more. Try to read this article for more inspiration about sex toys.
Do this sensual penis massage and you will not regret it. Your partner will reward you with passion and love. Mainly do not rush, make slow moves, use oil and enjoy it too!
If you want to ask about something or anything was not clear, do not hesitate and write a comment below.
