John Grochowski
It used to be that sexual counseling for men was basically like a goal to cover the penis with time while waiting for the vagina. Now, with advances in technology (sexting, video telephones, etc.), two people no longer have to be in the same room to have sex with partners. However, this does not mean that everything has changed; Long-distance sex does not mean that the care of a penis is not important, and that does not mean that men have nothing to do, as it participates in pleasurable activities that occur in two rooms, states or even different countries.
Words can speak louder than actions.
When a person engages in sexual activity with another person who is not in the same physical location, their words may have more influence and importance than ever. This is especially true for textual sexual communication, such as sexting or email without a visual component; the person trusts in their way of speaking so that their partner gets warm and worries, and keeps the partner in this way until both have reached the release.
Make a race in the dry.
Remember that when you use video chat or other visual media, you can look a little different in the camera than in real life. In a big-budget Hollywood movie, seasoned professionals provide coverage that is extremely flattering, and operators know exactly which corners to use to represent a person in the most beneficial way. When using a webcam in a room completely lit with fluorescent lamps, the effect will not be the same.
If possible, a man should plan a “dress rehearsal”: he should shoot himself with the expected actions, and then play it to see what it looks like. Using this as a guide, you can decide where you should sit, stand or lie down, in what position, etc., and also if you need to find a way to adjust the lighting.
Prepare for the foreground.
The boy should also remember that the camera can make or break his instrument, clearly, that is. Each boy wants to play a monster. The shot with the camera, looking towards the vertical penis, seems more impressive. And vice versa: shooting on the body reduces its impact.
Management problems
The Internet is full of photos and videos of men involved in sexual acts, which were supposed to remain closed. It is very important for a person to remember this before participating in virtual visual sex. You should ask yourself: “How will I feel if somehow it’s on YouTube?” If you have any concerns, it is best to leave this activity.
